For that, I appreciate you, Tumblr. But that didn't stop girls from posting an overwhelming amount of pictures of or relating to the thigh gap under the new tag "thigh gab."
Just scrolling through this tag made me realize that this is what some girls think is all that matters. When we watched Miss Representation, it said that the majority of women are unhappy with their body. I instantly thought about this idea of the thigh gap that so many girls seem to be fixated on. But according to these pictures, it's more than just the thigh gap, but prominent collar bones and jutting hip bones.
In this generation, we are constantly surrounded by media. We get the idea that beauty is being thin, collar and hip bones--basically having the "perfect body." Media has warped the way we view women and how we perceive beauty. These thigh gap pictures on Tumblr is just one way that the media is defining beauty. It seems unreasonable, though, because no one really looks like these girls in the pictures without questioning their health. As the media is feeding us these images, we look at ourselves and realize that we aren't these girls. That's when we start that self-objectification. We start to see ourselves as less than human, but rather an object, where we call ourselves degrading names and target our every insecurity. It's unbelievable that the media is presenting us with this unrealistic reality.
Media has a huge impact on women, especially. Imagine a never-ending page of pictures just like these--scrolling through social media and this is all you see. It's no wonder that this very thin body image is ingrained into our heads. Beyond social media, all we see in TV, movies, and magazines are women with the "ideal" body. And if that's not it, magazines ridicule or point out every natural flaw. It's called being human.
If this is the case that media is feeding us the ideas about beauty, then what does that say about us? Does that mean that we as a society value beauty, thigh gaps, and perfect bodies over intelligence and skill? I wish that wasn't how it is, but that's what's been being presented to us on a daily basis. I think this is an issue that needs to get the attention of people. We can't ignore the media and blindly follow its ideas that are being given to us. I hope that we can see past the objectification, because it's holding us back from achieving and getting to issues that really matter.
If thigh gaps are the main issue here, then we really need to step back and reevaluate too many of our values. I think one of the simplest ways is to address this issue is by realizing how the media warps reality and that we are individuals who do not need to conform. We shouldn't be changed by the media or be told what's acceptable. Media is targeting our insecurities, but that doesn't mean that we should accept it and change who we are to reflect the ideal image.